| Location | Lincoln |
| Age | 30 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 14/04/1972 |
| Date of Death | 14/08/2002 |
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Trevor Alexander Jassie died on Wednesday 14th August 2002. He was aged 30years old. Trevor was a
nurse. He was born in Lincoln. He lived and worked in Grimsby. He had a brother James, and 2 sisters
Julia and Amanda. His proud parents David and Gilda devastated and heartbroken. A close family with
lots of love for each other. And we also had lots of fun together.
Trevor had a son called Alexander, who he loved very much.He would've given the world to his
precious son. He was uncle to James, Kayleigh and James.
Trevor died in a horrific road incident, caused by a HGV driver named Bernard Parry from Hinckley,
Leicestershire, who took a dangerous and life taking RISK on the road. Parry pulled out of the
A1173 in his 60tonne lorry across the A46 at Caistor, to turn into the B1225. A bad manoeuvre,
leaving his lorry blocking the eastbound carriageway and partially blocking the westbound lane. Trev
tried avoiding the lorry but his car collided with the lorrys front cab,trapping him inside. Trevor
died in his car, the emergency services did all they could to revive him and get him free from the
wreckage. Parry was prosecuted but justice wasnt done. Driving without due care and attention.......
A measly £500 fine and £500 costs. Eight penalty points on his licence. Parry was to blame 100%
for the incident. Hes NEVER shown any remorse for his actions.
Trevor was the rock in the family. He was kind, very caring, thoughtful and loving. He was one in a
million. A very clever young man. A heart of gold. He would do anything for anyone. He was cheeky
too and full of life. Trevor was very good at his job which he loved. He was loved by everyone that
knew him. He was an amazing father to his son Alexander, always there to support him and gave lots
of his time to his son.
Family get togethers were fun because OUR Trev was the life and soul of the party. He never drank
alcohol. He was full of life.
I miss Trev so very much. We grew up so closely, me being just 13 months older than him. When we
were younger we would talk to each other in our sleep and answer each other. Crazy but true.
When he died he took a part of me with him. I never thought my heart would be broken by my brother,
but it was. I was 11weeks pregnant when he died. I cried so much just hoping I would wake from a
terrible nightmare.
Trevor was a fantastic brother. I love him very much, he is never out of my thoughts. I have photos
of him around my house, they make me feel close to him. No one will ever be able to take away the
millions of magnificient memories me, the family and his friends have of him. They are too precious
to let go of. He will always be talked about. His memories live on. Trev had lots of close friends
in his life who he thought a lot of, and shared many good times with. Andrew Richardson(Ricko),
Andrew Ellis, Daniel Blanchard, and Paul Wilson(Wilbur)are just a few of his good friends. They all
share happy memories with Trevor.
Why is it said that "time is the greatest healer?".............. To me it isnt. I miss him more and
more each day. And I know his close family do too.
TREVOR
Do you hear me when I speak to you?
Can you feel my love so deep?
Have you transcended to another world...
Where once again we'll meet?
Do you see my tears continue
As I live on without you here?
Is it you that comes to visit...
When I feel you are near?
Do you see I'm lost without you?
Can you tell how much I've changed?
I live my life as if I'm lying
Was this all just prearranged?
Do you know how much I need you?
Can you come take me away?
For living on without you
Is so very difficult each day.
Have others just forgotten?
Or do they just ignore...
That grief lives on forever
Deep down within my core
When my time on Earth is over
And I have worked my whole life through
Will I travel up to heaven...
To finally be with you?
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Tattered around the edges and faded now with time; Memories that linger still, are what he left
behind. Like a precious package, kept in a secret room; Each moment a treasure, a heirloom~~ On rare
and quiet occassions, the package opens wide, Revealing then the moments that nestle inside, Faces
etched in memories like a photo from the past; Each snapshot printed in the heart, and memories that
last~~Worn and ragged photographs, so faded now with time; yet the lasting love deep in your heart
is what HE left behind.
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IF TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME
IF TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME,AND IM NOT THERE TO SEE.
IF THE SUN SHOULD RISE AND FILL YOUR EYES ALL FILLED WITH TEARS FOR ME.
I WISH SO MUCH,YOU WOULDNT CRY,THE WAY YOU DID TODAY.
WHILE THINKING OF THE MANY THINGS WE DIDNT GET TO SAY.
I KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVE ME ,AS MUCH AS I LOVE YOU.
AND EACH A TIME YOU THINK OF ME, I KNOW YOU WILL MISS ME TOO.
BUT WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME, PLEASE TRY TO UNDERSTAND.
THAT AN ANGEL CAME AND CALLED MY NAME, AND TOOK ME BY THE HAND. AND SAID MY PLACE WAS READY, IN
HEAVEN FAR ABOVE.
AND I'D HAVE TO LEAVE BEHIND, THE ONES I TRULY LOVE.
BUT AS I TURNED TO WALK AWAY, A TEAR FELL FROM MY EYE.
FOR ALL MY LIFE, I'D ALWAYS THOUGHT I DIDNT WANT TO DIE.
I HAD SO MUCH TO LIVE FOR, SO MUCH LEFT TO DO.
IT ALMOST SEEMED IMPOSSIBLE THAT I WAS LEAVING YOU. I THOUGHT OF ALL THE YESTERDAYS, THE GOOD ONES
AND THE BAD.
I THOUGHT OF ALL THE LOVE WE SHARED, AND ALL THE FUN WE HAD.
IF I COULD RELIVE YESTERDAY, JUST EVEN FOR A WHILE, I'D SAY GOODBYE AND KISS YOU, AND MAYBE SEE YOU
SMILE.
BUT THEN I FULLY REALISED,THAT THIS COULD NEVER BE, FOR EMPTYNESS AND MEMORIES WOULD TAKE THE PLACE
OF ME.
BUT WHEN I WALKED THROUGH HEAVENS GATES, I FELT SO MUCH AT HOME WHEN GOD LOOKED DOWN AND SMILED AT
ME, FROM HIS GREAT GOLDEN THRONE.HE SAID THIS IS ETERNITY, AND ALL I PROMISED YOU. TODAY YOUR LIFE
ON EARTH HAS PASSED, AND HERE LIFE STARTS ANEW. SO WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME, DONT THINK WERE
FAR APART, FOR EVERYTIME YOU THINK OF ME, IM RIGHT HERE, HERE IN YOUR HEART.
♥ With Love ♥
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One day at a time I take
Remembering your laugh
Your smile and your love
Every day they say
Time gets easier
But it doesn’t
Nothing can replace you
Because you were so special
Every day brings loving thoughts of you
Your arms were always open
When I needed a hug
Your heart understood when
I needed comforting
Your showed me how to love
All we have to cling to now
Are memories of yesterday
~Unknown~
love you Trev
~ With Love ~
My place for you
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There is a secret place
Within the heart of me
Where thoughts of you return
Like haunting melodies.
The voice I loved, now still,
Is whispering inside,
It stirs fond memories
Which in my heart reside.
Old feelings spring to life;
It is as if you're near,
Speaking words of comfort
"Remember I'm still here".
I know it is a dream
My heart so loves this song;
Souvenirs I store away
In the place where they belong.
•:*:• ♥•:*: •:*:• ♥•:*: •:*:• ♥•:*: •:*:• ♥•:*:
� Marian Jones 2003
BUTTERFLIES FROM HEAVEN
When we lose our loved ones they never die
For I know once heaven takes their souls
The Dear Lord leaves a little of them here
To turn into beautiful butterflies
So they can be near our hearts
Blessed are those who can see the beauty
Of the life which has gone to what is "God's Art"
When we look for the angels
They will send us Jesus' love
I saw a butterfly today, my last prayer I gave away
Heaven is more than souls of our loved ones
When a father, mother, a brother, sister or a child dies
Their hearts live in those who have loved them
Every grain of sand, every sunrise and sunset
All the good things we know and love
They all go to Jesus for Him to protect
As a gift, The Lord, lets us have a glimpse of those we love
For a brief moment in time, for a short while
A butterfly is seen at our window, sent from heaven
Then we know, all will be well with those we love
thinking of you
A quiet thought, a silent tear, a constant wish that you were here. Words are few but thoughts are deep, memories of you, i'll always keep. xx
I WILL GUIDE YOU.
Look through your tears of sadness
And look out for a smile
I'd like to see you happy
If only for a while
I'd like to see your sad days
Turned into something bright
You can use me as your guardian
To make this world seem right
I know it can be difficult
And everything seems wrong
But hold your head above it all
I will gladly help you along
For every hour I see you crying
Its an hour that I'm left sad
For every hour I see you laughing
Its an hour that I feel glad
Dont hold onto the yesterdays
Today is a brand new day
And the tap you feel on your shoulder
Is me to guide you on your way
a new year
a new year started without you. another year thinking about you and what you should really be doing instaed of lying in your grave. It is all so unfair. The time without you seems much harder. I dont think i will ever accept that you have gone. I miss you so very much.You were an amazing brother to me, and an amazing uncle to my son. We both cried at James 21st party because you were not there to celebrate your nephews birthday. he will make you proud tho when he graduates at university. He has your kind caring, loving heart and clever head.
miss you like mad
love you lots my sweet brother
xxxxx
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Although the World keeps turning
And the sun comes up each day,
Life has never been the same
Since you were called away.
You were such a special person -
So, gentle, good and kind
And have left the sweetest memories
And thoughts of you behind.
I only wish there was a way
That I could see you one more time
To thank you for the joy you brought
Into this life of mine."
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When you feel you miss me most,
As years go driftin by,
Each memory will prove to you,
That love can never die,
That while I left you far too soon,
I did not go alone,
For the father sent his angels,
To gently take me home,
Take comfort when you think of me,
Hold my love deep within your heart,
And with the warmth of every memory,
We will never be apart.
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Never think you are on your own
I`d never let you walk alone
When you`re down and want to cry
Let it out, let your tears run dry,
I watch and guide you everyday
So that you can find your way
And when you`re down and in despair
Just call my name and i`ll be there,
Right by your side through good and bad
But you need never feel sad,
Until it`s time for your journey home
Just remember you`re not on your own
We`ll meet again sometime soon
And we`ll be together, like the stars and moon
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I have a picture of you I carry in my heart
Close my eyes to see it when the world gets dark
I have a memory of you I carry in my soul
I wrap it close around me when the nights get cold
If you ask me how I am doing I would say just fine
But the truth is if you could read my mind
Not a day goes by that I don’t think of you
After all this time you are still with me that is true
Somehow you remain so deep inside
This memory I will never ever want to hide
♥
✽ܓ Angel In Your Garden ✽ܓ
Dan Turner 2-27-00
I was working in my garden, Just the other day. When a little neighbour girl, Ran up and blocked my way.
“Do you know you have an Angel in your garden, Over by the trees?”
With a gentle laugh, Reserved for special times, I asked, “Does she have wings and A long white dress that Shimmers in the breeze?”
“Yes!”, she said, “So you have seen her, too!” “I’m so glad, because when I told my dad, he said there were no such things – they were only make believe.”
She then skipped off, happy and complete. When she passed from view, I turned and looked again toward the closest tree. And there - I swear - was an angel smiling back at me. I walked over, expecting her to disappear. But as I got closer, her features became more clear.
I stood there for a moment not knowing what to do. Finally I said, “Does this mean it is time for me to go?” If you have never heard an angel laugh, your life is not complete. For the words glow with warmth, they are pure and kind and sweet.
“No actually, I come here often, to watch your steady pace.” “You know, flowers are among God’s greatest gifts, and this is such a restful place.”
“Then why haven’t I seen you, before this afternoon?”
“I suppose you’ve chosen not to – as most people do.” “Well”, she said, “it’s time for me to go.” “I just stopped to rest in your garden – I enjoy the roses so.” She assured me she would stop again, and bring her friends by, too. But as she left, this simple verse echoed in my mind:
“Seek and ye shall find
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