Trevor Alexander Jassie

Trevor Alexander Jassie died on Wednesday 14th August 2002. He was aged 30years old. Trevor was a nurse. He was born in Lincoln. He lived and worked in Grimsby. He had a brother James, and 2 sisters Julia and Amanda. His proud parents David and Gilda devastated and heartbroken. A close family with lots of love for each other. And we also had lots of fun together.
Trevor had a son called Alexander, who he loved very much.He would've given the world to his precious son. He was uncle to James, Kayleigh and James.
Trevor died in a horrific road incident, caused by a HGV driver named Bernard Parry from Hinckley, Leicestershire, who took a dangerous and life taking RISK on the road. Parry pulled out of the A1173 in his 60tonne lorry across the A46 at Caistor, to turn into the B1225. A bad manoeuvre, leaving his lorry blocking the eastbound carriageway and partially blocking the westbound lane. Trev tried avoiding the lorry but his car collided with the lorrys front cab,trapping him inside. Trevor died in his car, the emergency services did all they could to revive him and get him free from the wreckage. Parry was prosecuted but justice wasnt done. Driving without due care and attention....... A measly £500 fine and £500 costs. Eight penalty points on his licence. Parry was to blame 100% for the incident. Hes NEVER shown any remorse for his actions.

Trevor was the rock in the family. He was kind, very caring, thoughtful and loving. He was one in a million. A very clever young man. A heart of gold. He would do anything for anyone. He was cheeky too and full of life. Trevor was very good at his job which he loved. He was loved by everyone that knew him. He was an amazing father to his son Alexander, always there to support him and gave lots of his time to his son.
Family get togethers were fun because OUR Trev was the life and soul of the party. He never drank alcohol. He was full of life.
I miss Trev so very much. We grew up so closely, me being just 13 months older than him. When we were younger we would talk to each other in our sleep and answer each other. Crazy but true.
When he died he took a part of me with him. I never thought my heart would be broken by my brother, but it was. I was 11weeks pregnant when he died. I cried so much just hoping I would wake from a terrible nightmare.
Trevor was a fantastic brother. I love him very much, he is never out of my thoughts. I have photos of him around my house, they make me feel close to him. No one will ever be able to take away the millions of magnificient memories me, the family and his friends have of him. They are too precious to let go of. He will always be talked about. His memories live on. Trev had lots of close friends in his life who he thought a lot of, and shared many good times with. Andrew Richardson(Ricko), Andrew Ellis, Daniel Blanchard, and Paul Wilson(Wilbur)are just a few of his good friends. They all share happy memories with Trevor.
Why is it said that "time is the greatest healer?".............. To me it isnt. I miss him more and more each day. And I know his close family do too.


TREVOR
Do you hear me when I speak to you?
Can you feel my love so deep?
Have you transcended to another world...
Where once again we'll meet?

Do you see my tears continue
As I live on without you here?
Is it you that comes to visit...
When I feel you are near?

Do you see I'm lost without you?
Can you tell how much I've changed?
I live my life as if I'm lying
Was this all just prearranged?

Do you know how much I need you?
Can you come take me away?
For living on without you
Is so very difficult each day.

Have others just forgotten?
Or do they just ignore...
That grief lives on forever
Deep down within my core

When my time on Earth is over
And I have worked my whole life through
Will I travel up to heaven...
To finally be with you?

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Tattered around the edges and faded now with time; Memories that linger still, are what he left behind. Like a precious package, kept in a secret room; Each moment a treasure, a heirloom~~ On rare and quiet occassions, the package opens wide, Revealing then the moments that nestle inside, Faces etched in memories like a photo from the past; Each snapshot printed in the heart, and memories that last~~Worn and ragged photographs, so faded now with time; yet the lasting love deep in your heart is what HE left behind.

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IF TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME

IF TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME,AND IM NOT THERE TO SEE.
IF THE SUN SHOULD RISE AND FILL YOUR EYES ALL FILLED WITH TEARS FOR ME.
I WISH SO MUCH,YOU WOULDNT CRY,THE WAY YOU DID TODAY.
WHILE THINKING OF THE MANY THINGS WE DIDNT GET TO SAY.
I KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVE ME ,AS MUCH AS I LOVE YOU.
AND EACH A TIME YOU THINK OF ME, I KNOW YOU WILL MISS ME TOO.
BUT WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME, PLEASE TRY TO UNDERSTAND.
THAT AN ANGEL CAME AND CALLED MY NAME, AND TOOK ME BY THE HAND. AND SAID MY PLACE WAS READY, IN HEAVEN FAR ABOVE.
AND I'D HAVE TO LEAVE BEHIND, THE ONES I TRULY LOVE.
BUT AS I TURNED TO WALK AWAY, A TEAR FELL FROM MY EYE.
FOR ALL MY LIFE, I'D ALWAYS THOUGHT I DIDNT WANT TO DIE.
I HAD SO MUCH TO LIVE FOR, SO MUCH LEFT TO DO.
IT ALMOST SEEMED IMPOSSIBLE THAT I WAS LEAVING YOU. I THOUGHT OF ALL THE YESTERDAYS, THE GOOD ONES AND THE BAD.
I THOUGHT OF ALL THE LOVE WE SHARED, AND ALL THE FUN WE HAD.
IF I COULD RELIVE YESTERDAY, JUST EVEN FOR A WHILE, I'D SAY GOODBYE AND KISS YOU, AND MAYBE SEE YOU SMILE.
BUT THEN I FULLY REALISED,THAT THIS COULD NEVER BE, FOR EMPTYNESS AND MEMORIES WOULD TAKE THE PLACE OF ME.
BUT WHEN I WALKED THROUGH HEAVENS GATES, I FELT SO MUCH AT HOME WHEN GOD LOOKED DOWN AND SMILED AT ME, FROM HIS GREAT GOLDEN THRONE.HE SAID THIS IS ETERNITY, AND ALL I PROMISED YOU. TODAY YOUR LIFE ON EARTH HAS PASSED, AND HERE LIFE STARTS ANEW. SO WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME, DONT THINK WERE FAR APART, FOR EVERYTIME YOU THINK OF ME, IM RIGHT HERE, HERE IN YOUR HEART.